Worries

Can't stop worrying about this FET.
I mean, first of all there is no guarantee it'll work which will be the worst outcome possible.

But...if it does work then I don't know if it'll all work out okay. My first pregnancy ended at 17 weeks with premature labour, no cause was ever identified. The second pregnancy I was monitored a lot more, just incase, and they discovered my cervix starting to open at 22+6. This was by accident as it was completely shut at 21 weeks and they thought I was okay. I had a big bleed though so they scanned me to see why and discovered this instead!

I had a stitch put in and they said it may last up to six weeks. Four weeks and six days later I went into labour. 32 hours later at 28+1 our gorgeous son was born. By some miracle he is absolutely perfect!

The problem is, the doctor said they can put the stitch in at 14 weeks and it should last till full term, however they cannot guarantee that premature labour is not a separate problem.

I mean what are the chances of having fertility problems on both sides, incompetent cervix and prem labour?? Surely just one problem per couple would be sufficient!

So I have the risks associated with the op to put the stitch in, risk of prem labour and all the associated health risks to the baby. All while coping with a toddler...

Makes my head spin, just seems so scary no matter what way you look at it. The only problem is I don't think I'll be able to live with myself if we don't at least try.

So, eight days to go...